When running at NF the current Rack and BBR changes with the recent
commits from Richard that cause the socket buffer lock to be held over
the ip_output() call and then finally culminating in a call to tcp_handle_wakeup()
we get a lot of leaked mbufs. I don't think that this leak is actually caused
by holding the lock or what Richard has done, but is exposing some other
bug that has probably been lying dormant for a long time. I will continue to
look (using his changes) at what is going on to try to root cause out the issue.

In the meantime I can't leave the leaks out for everyone else. So this commit
will revert all of Richards changes and move both Rack and BBR back to just
doing the old sorwakeup_locked() calls after messing with the so_rcv buffer.

We may want to look at adding back in Richards changes after I have pinpointed
the root cause of the mbuf leak and fixed it.

Reviewed by: mtuexen,rscheff
Sponsored by: Netflix Inc
Differential Revision:	https://reviews.freebsd.org/D30704